Navigating Internet Safety for Seniors: How to Protect Your Loved Ones Online

In today’s digital age, ensuring safe internet practices can be incredibly challenging, especially for seniors who may not fully grasp the risks associated with online browsing. This post reflects on a common dilemma faced by many: how to help an elderly parent—specifically a 75-year-old—who has a habit of clicking on every link she encounters, regardless of its source.

The Problem: A Lack of Internet Awareness

My mother, like many in her generation, tends to click on links in every email, text message, and social media post she comes across. Unfortunately, this careless browsing has led her into various scams, although we’ve managed to recover her lost funds. Yet, her computer is now a hub for malware and tracking cookies. Attempts to discuss safe internet practices have proven futile, as any form of advice is often misinterpreted as criticism.

Seeking Technical Solutions

With rational conversations off the table, I’ve shifted my focus to network-level solutions. My goal is to implement a system that will help block her computer and iPhone from accessing dangerous websites. I’m particularly interested in DNS services that can provide a safeguard against malicious links. I recall that OpenDNS previously offered a blacklist feature, but I’m unsure which current services provide similar benefits.

Exploring Options

As a tech-savvy individual, I understand the basics of DNS management and can navigate through guides easily. However, I would appreciate recommendations on reliable services that suit this specific need. My mother is an AT&T U-verse user, and while I’m open to working with an additional non-AT&T device to enhance safety, switching providers is not an option at this time.

A Solution in Progress

I want to extend my gratitude to everyone who offered suggestions. It seems the consensus points toward using NextDNS for its ability to filter harmful content. Additionally, I plan to improve her Chrome security settings and install uBlock Origin to further enhance her browsing safety. For iPhone protection, I am hopeful that NextDNS will effectively reduce exposure to risky sites. I’m also considering a Raspberry Pi project down the line for an additional layer of security.

Conclusion: Sharing the Journey

To anyone facing similar challenges with their elderly family members, know that you are not alone. I’m eager to share these discoveries and misadventures along the way, hoping they may assist others in ensuring that our loved ones can have a safer experience